IWLTK EP 4

Navigating Faith: Honoring Parents, Studying the Bible, and the Importance of Church

As a Christian, living out your faith often comes with questions about relationships, the role of Scripture, and the necessity of church. In today’s world, where diverse perspectives abound, these questions are more relevant than ever. Let’s dive into three key areas and explore what Scripture says about honoring parents, studying the Bible, and why church matters.

1. Honoring Parents with Different Beliefs

“Both of my parents strongly believe in two opposing religions. How do I ‘honor my parents’ and maintain a relationship with them while still maintaining my faith as a Christian?”

Honoring your parents is a commandment found in Exodus 20:12: “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” However, honoring them doesn’t mean you have to compromise your faith or adopt their beliefs. It’s about showing respect, love, and understanding, even in the midst of disagreement.

Here are some practical ways to honor your parents while staying true to your faith:

• Show Respect: Even if you don’t agree with their beliefs, avoid arguments or condescension. Listen to them with an open heart, demonstrating Christlike humility and kindness.

• Live Out Your Faith: Actions often speak louder than words. Let your life reflect the love of Christ. Your parents may not agree with your beliefs, but they will notice the peace, joy, and integrity you display.

• Pray for Them: Lift your parents up in prayer regularly. Ask God to soften their hearts and give you wisdom in navigating these differences.

• Set Boundaries: It’s okay to respectfully decline participation in religious practices that conflict with your faith. Be clear but gentle about your convictions.

Remember, honoring your parents doesn’t mean sacrificing your relationship with God. It means loving them well, even when you disagree.

2. Why Study the Bible When You Can Just Google?

“What’s the point of studying the Bible? Can’t I just Google everything I need to know?”

In today’s digital age, information is at our fingertips. While Google is a helpful tool, it’s no substitute for studying the Bible. Here’s why:

• The Bible is God’s Living Word: Hebrews 4:12 reminds us that the Word of God is “alive and active.” It’s not just a collection of facts—it’s a guide for how to live, hear God’s voice, and grow spiritually. Studying Scripture allows you to develop a personal relationship with God, which no search engine can provide.

• Context Matters: Online searches often pull verses out of context. Studying the Bible helps you understand the full story, themes, and truths behind each passage.

• Spiritual Growth: Just like physical exercise strengthens your body, regular Bible study strengthens your spirit. Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”The more you study, the clearer your path becomes.

• Discernment: The internet is full of conflicting interpretations. Studying Scripture yourself equips you to discern truth from error and ensures your faith is rooted in God’s Word, not popular opinion.

Instead of relying on quick answers, commit to diving into Scripture regularly. You’ll find that God reveals more to you through His Word than any search engine ever could.

3. Do I Really Need to Go to Church?

“Do I really need to go to church? Why can’t I serve God from my house in my own way?”

It’s a valid question—especially in a world where online services and personal spirituality are increasingly common. While you can worship God anywhere, the Bible emphasizes the importance of gathering with other believers.

Here’s why going to church matters:

• Biblical Command: Hebrews 10:24-25 urges us, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.” Church provides a space for encouragement, accountability, and collective worship.

• Spiritual Growth: Church isn’t just about listening to sermons. It’s about fellowship, learning from others, and being part of a community that helps you grow in your faith. Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”

• Using Your Gifts: God has given you unique talents and spiritual gifts to serve others. Church is a place where you can use those gifts to bless the community and glorify God (1 Corinthians 12:4-7).

• Strength in Community: Life is full of challenges, and the church provides a support system to help you through. Galatians 6:2 encourages us to “carry each other’s burdens.”

While private worship is important, church allows you to experience the body of Christ in action. It’s a space where believers come together to serve, grow, and celebrate God as one.

Conclusion

Faith is a journey, and questions like these help you grow closer to God. Whether it’s honoring parents with different beliefs, committing to Bible study, or prioritizing church, each step you take deepens your relationship with Christ.

Remember, following Jesus isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. By living out your faith with humility, curiosity, and community, you’ll discover the joy and purpose that only comes from walking with Him.